A kink-filled vacation
If you’ve ever been on vacation with a significant other, then you know just how great it can feel to relax side by side and explore a new town, state, or even a new country together.
It’s the perfect chance to leave behind all the stresses and anxieties of your day-to-day lives and just focus on each other and having fun.
So, of course, all that freedom also gives you both a great opportunity to indulge in some of your favorite kinks, all without disturbing the neighbors back home.
So pack a bag with all the necessary toys, outfits, and bath bombs: it’s time to talk about some very kinky weekend getaway ideas that will give you and your partner plenty of the alone time you’ve both been craving.
A sexy road trip
Price range: $
If you and your partner really enjoy the freedom of the open road, then a sexy road trip might be the getaway for you.
This idea could be a great option for couples that have a special interest in exhibitionism and semi-public sex.
The idea is to embark on a relatively short road trip while getting into the mindset of being on a much longer trek.
This has the power to make you feel like a couple of crazy kids who snuck out of their small town to explore what’s out there.
Depending on your preferences (and your car), you can sleep in the vehicle or stop at some tiny roadside motels each night.
If you like the idea of having some privacy right there in the vehicle, then you can rent an RV or camper van so that you can stop and “rest” just about anywhere.
For especially spontaneous couples, it can add an extra element of excitement to not plan exactly where you’ll be going. Make it a spontaneous road trip to who knows where.
Just go where to road takes you and be sure to stop halfway through the weekend and head back. Simple as that!
A nearby Airbnb
Price range: $$
Airbnb has quickly become one of the most versatile temporary stay options for just about anyone, regardless of where you happen to be in the country.
Plenty of folks have opened their doors to travelers, provided that those travelers are willing to pay a mild fee for a night’s stay.
It’s an especially exciting opportunity for a couple of reasons, the first of which is simply that Airbnbs offer unprecedented access to some of the most architecturally interesting homes available for rent, which is great news if you and your partner are stuck in bland apartment buildings back home.
But it’s also great since you can pay for privacy. When cruising Airbnb with your partner, try to focus on properties that are listed as “whole house/apartment.”
This simply means that you’ll have the whole place to yourself if you decide to rent it. That’s great news for kink-friendly couples since you won’t have to worry about other guests or nearby neighbors, at least most of the time.
So get loud, and enjoy all the (heavy) breathing room that an Airbnb can offer. Since it’s only a weekend stay, why not look at some pricier options on the platform. Just keep in mind that you’ll typically pay added fees on top of the nightly rate.
If you don’t feel like traveling all that far to get to the Airbnb of your choice, you can even try to find one close by. This will also let you see your town from a different perspective.
A freewheelin’ camping trip
Price range: $
If you’re a couple who enjoys the great outdoors, then taking a weekend camping trip can be adventurous and sexy at the same time.
One of the most important aspects to aim for in a kinky camping trip is privacy. Obviously this depends pretty heavily on where you live, where you plan to go camping, and the time of year.
You certainly don’t want to camp illegally in an off-limits section of a National Park, for one, but you also don’t want to end up at a popular camping site with pre-fab fire pits because while tents offer a decent amount of visual privacy, they’re not known for their soundproofing abilities.
Reach out to a nearby campground or the office of a National Park in your area. Ask them if there are any hiking routes/camping areas for more experienced outdoorsmen.
That way, you’ll be able to pitch a tent, both literally and figuratively, wherever you want! If you don’t come across any other hikers along the way, you might even be able to walk around with less than the normal amount of clothes.
Just be sure to bring plenty of bug spray and sunscreen. Every kink is more difficult if you’re dealing with bug bites and sensitive skin.
In the end, feeling connected to your partner while also feeling connected with nature can be a fantastic experience, and who knows, it might even end up becoming a new kink.
A local kink party
Price range: $
Whether you and your partner are already familiar with the local kink scene or you’re just starting out, kink parties in your area can be a great way to spend just an evening or even a whole weekend.
Of course, it all depends on the specifics of the party in question. If you’re new to the local kink community, then most of what you’ll find will be public events organized by local establishments where the main goal is to meet other kinksters with similar interests.
These types of events will have their own rules about what you’re allowed to wear (or not wear) and what you’re allowed to do and touch when it comes to the other attendees.
But for many people, these entry-level parties are mainly a way to meet and talk with other people who share their interests.
From there, you may find yourselves being invited to private parties that take place elsewhere, often in someone’s home.
If you and your partner have been interested in trying out some group fun or even swapping, then this can be a great way to explore this whole new world of kinks.
Some of these private parties encourage guests to stay the night, both because play is sure to continue, but also because there may be drinking and sleeping over means no one has to worry about designated drivers or other transportation solutions.
But if this sounds like this would be of interest to you and your partner, then attending a kinky party could easily be one of the best ways to spend a romantic weekend together.
A luxury hotel
Price range: $$$
This is definitely one of the most expensive weekend getaway ideas we came up with, so keep that in mind before you make solid plans.
But at the same time, short stays at a luxury hotel are much more doable than a full vacation stay of a week or more.
If you and your partner have a bit of disposable income and you wouldn’t mind feeling especially fancy for a weekend, then you can plan ahead a bit and save some funds to have an especially luxurious time together.
Another great way to get the luxury hotel experience without paying luxury prices is to use any number of apps, websites, and platforms that are designed to help people save money on hotel stays.
HotelTonight, in particular, is built around last-minute bookings for those of us who don’t enjoy planning ahead at all.
Services like this one can easily make for a spontaneous weekend of fun and fanciness.
Once you’re in your luxury suite, what happens next is entirely up to you, and even more importantly, as long as you don’t destroy the room, it’s none of the hotel’s business.
You can get as wild as you’d like with no one there to get in the way or to tell you to keep it down.
Bring all the kinky supplies you’ll need, like restraints, toys, lube, and plenty of protection.
In between play sessions, you can also enjoy ordering some room service or taking a dip in the pool.
If you manage to book a room with its own jacuzzi, you’ll have another great place to wash up, relax, and reset before getting back to it.
The main course
No matter where you end up going with your partner to have some romantic fun, just remember that all the kinks and the place you travel to– it’s all just a bit of extra seasoning. The real focus is you and your partner: your fun, your joy, and your affection for each other.
Rather than distracting from all that, your kinky adventures will highlight how much you care about each other.
Stepping outside of your comfort zones can be a wonderful way to remind yourselves just how excited you are to be together and how nice it is to find someone willing to explore new activities and new experiences.