Dildos are fairly self-explanatory. Unlike most vibrators, dildos don’t have all the fancy bells and whistles that other popular sex toys do. A dildo is much closer to an actual dick, but in artificial form. 

Whether you want to try something new or you’re a certified dildo enthusiast, here’s what you need to know about how to ride a dildo. Soon enough you’ll be having fun with these classic sex toys, whether on your own or with your partner. 

When using a toy by yourself

Even if you intend to use this sex toy with your partner, make sure you try it on your own first. You will feel less self-conscious and you will concentrate on how your faux penis feels without any distractions. Ensure you have enough time and some privacy before you start.

This will give you the perfect chance to get to know yourself better and figure out what your preferences are.

Foreplay comes first

Before you start using the toy for the first time, try to arouse yourself naturally. Distractions or an awkward feeling can cause uncomfortable penetration. Therefore, making sure you’re relaxed and aroused will make your first experience with the toy smoother and pleasurable.

Start slow

Before inserting the dildo, find out how it feels when you rub it on your body. Use the dildo to massage and arouse your exterior genitalia, such as the anus, labia, or vulva. Try to tease yourself with the sex toy to make for easy penetration. The moment you start to penetrate using the toy, it has to be done slowly. Be attentive to how it feels and how it differs from using your fingers or a real penis for penetration.

Play with speed and rhythm

Has the dildo settled in well? Now you can try pumping with various speeds and rhythms. The best thing about sex toys is that they’ll do what you want them to do. A dildo won’t get worn out or experience cramps. Moreover, you can start or stop any time you want.

However, you must be keen on any difference between steady and slow movements and erratic and fast movement. Determine what you love and what works best for you. Eventually, you’ll have to create some mental notes to share with your partner.

Know your limits

If you’re using a longer dildo, deep penetration might be painful or un-pleasurable. Sometimes using a longer dildo might tempt you to push it until fully inserted or against the cervix, and this might be painful. In case, you feel pain, stop and start slow. With the longer types, always adjust the length of the toy by holding it on the shaft instead of holding it at the base.

If the dildo has a moderate length, it will allow deeper penetration, and this can be pleasurable. Try out with various angles of penetration, and you will realize that some spots are extra pleasurable than others. Similarly, try with different sex positions to get different feels of the penetration.

Add clitoral stimulation

For women, adding some clitoral stimulation while playing with a dildo changes the feel of penetration. The majority of women enjoy simultaneous clitoral stimulation and penetration. Even though this needs some coordination, the effort is worth it. Use the vibrator for clitoral stimulation as you play with your dildo.

Using a dildo with a partner

A dildo can be used with a partner in several ways. Whereas you and your companion can use the dildo on each other, make sure you get a new condom for each of you. You can as well get a strap-on or harness, and one of you can put strap the dildo and use it. Nevertheless, you need to follow the above guide, and make sure you’re confident on your own before you bring a partner.

Double penetration

With a partner, you might want to try double penetration. It is common in porn and plenty of people want to experiment with the idea of DP. It doesn’t hurt to try at home. The act entails either having a penis and a dildo in one hole or being inserted anally or vaginally at the same time. Even in the industry of pornography, double penetration is regarded as extremely high risk. However, people and couples who are using dildos can try out safely with double penetration provided they use lubricants and condoms. In addition, sex play should be slow and controlled by the one being penetrated.

Bend over, boyfriend

Over the last years, many dildo companies have been creating products designed explicitly for heterosexual partners who want to explore the male anus. This type of play, known as Bend Over Boyfriend, entails strapping on the dildo and thrusting it on the anus of the male partner.

Vaginal and anal dildos

While you can use any dildo for vaginal penetration, not all dildos are ideal for anal use. Those that are recommended for anal penetration tend to be seamless and smooth. They also feature a flared base to stop them from getting to the rectum. Never use the same dildo for anal and vaginal penetration without pausing to clean unless you’re using condoms.

The best dildo penetration techniques

There’re a couple of various penetration techniques that you can do when playing with a dildo. Note that learning the right method for you is part of the great experience.

Shallow thrusts

A shallow thrust plays a huge role in stimulating the clitoris and G-spot. Begin slowly and increase the speed by pushing in and out of the vagina. The perfect position to do this is on your back with the dominant hand holding the dildo, or on all fours, this will give you full control over how deep the dildo should go. Most women love this technique since it gives double simulation. In addition, short thrust can stimulate the virginal walls, which feels incredible.

Deep thrust

A deep thrust is what most people want. The technique entails thrusting the sex toy all the way and pulling it out repeatedly. Begin slowly, and increase the speed in a faster motion. This act stimulates the A-spot, and the G-spot. With the perfect pace, you’ll quickly achieve your G-spot orgasm.

You can combine the deep thrust and shallow thrust rhythmically. It feels amazing.

Milking the g-spot

Milking the G-spot entails passing the sex toy across the interior of the vagina and pushing to stimulate the G-spot in short and sharp bursts. This motion can give you squirting orgasms by maintaining the same movement and being persistent. Finding the G-spot can be hard, but you can position the dildo up to the bladder and apply some pressure with every thrust.

Rotating the head

Rotating the head of your dildo is another perfect technique to use the sex toy. Start with a normal penetration. Once you hit the G-spot, start rotating the dildo for incredible internal stimulation. Twisting the sex toy is a good teaser and gets your pussy turned on and ready to cum. You can as well insert the dildo, rotate at the entrance, and then push it in once you’re ready.

Double stimulation (anal or clitoris)

The double stimulation is a great and popular technique, even though it can be tiresome and needs more practice. Use the vibrator or your fingers to stimulate your clitoris while the other hand pushes the dildo in your vagina or ride it if it has suction. Alternatively, you can stimulate your anus with a butt plug and use the free hand to push the dildo inside the vagina. You’ll enjoy these two techniques. They deliver a blended orgasm.

Threesome simulating or butt plug

Simulating a threesome while riding a dildo is easy with a butt bug and a real dick. You can blow your male partner while riding the suction cup dildo and plugging the vibrating but plug in your butt.

Best dildo sex positions

Now that you know how to ride a dildo, it’s good to understand what your favorite sex position does with the dildo for ultimate pleasure and comfort.

On your back

With the legs bent and hanging freely, lean forward and push the sex toy as you lay on your back. You can rotate the dildo to one side and penetrate it while you’re on the side position, and this will make the pussy tighter. This feels great if you love a filling sensation.

Using the suction cup

You’ll love your dildo even more if it has a suction cup. The cup allows you to experience numerous positions and offers you the freedom to explore. You can ride the dildo on the floor, ride it against the wall, or ride it on the chair.

Various dildo sizes for various moods

Do you love to use dildos for your sexual pleasures? Then, you might have realized that the size you start with is small the moment you’ve used it for around 15 minutes. Most people believe that the size they prefer changes depending on their moods and how aroused they are. That explains why most dildo enthusiastic have a collection of sex toys. So before you settle on one size, experience with various sizes.

Like a penis, dildos are available in various shapes and sizes. All these types exist for a unique reason, though. This is your golden chance to get that perfect Vagina miner and usher it in your sex life. When it comes to the size, it’s recommended to begin small as you work your way up.

Large-sized dildos will give you more pleasure, especially when aroused. So, if you like a wider girth, get a wider dildo. If you intend to use the dildo for anal stimulation, get a dildo with a narrow shape at the end and wider at the base. 

Dildo 101

The materials used

Do you prefer a ridgy shaft or a smooth one? Dildos are available in different materials. They can be costly, but it’s good to invest in a high-quality product that you can afford since it will have a longer lifespan. Body-safe silicone is a perfect choice because it’s easy to clean and non-porous. However, if you want a dildo that feels smooth, opt for a metal one or glass one. Make sure you take a close look at where the ridges and bumps of the dildo are.

Lubricants

You’ll always need to use a lubricant with a sex toy for easy penetration. Since the majority of lubricants for sex toys are thicker, they don’t slide off the dildo immediately. Apply the lubricant on the dildo and both inside and outside of your vagina.

Water-based lubricants tend to be everyone’s favorite.

However, if you’re using a body-silicon dildo, avoid using a silicone-based lubricant. If you want to use the dildo for anal penetration, make sure you replenish the lubricant at some point.

Using condoms

You may choose to use condoms with your dildo if you’d like to keep it as clean as possible. This will lessen the chances of infections and allergic reactions from the material that makes the sex toy. Cleaning the dildo will also be easy.

Also, condoms are essential if you intend to use the toy for vaginal and anal penetration. In case you contract an STI, you need to use a condom on your sex toy to avoid re-infecting yourself in future. Nevertheless, if the toy can withstand boiling in water, then you might not need to use condoms, as long as you boil the toy after use.

Inspect your sex toy before use

Before using the sex toy, unwrap it from the package, clean it, and inspect it thoroughly. Look out for sharp edges and tears. If your toy is non-porous, search for any holes or missing bits on the surface of the toy. If you find any flaws, return the product before using it.

The final word

Knowing how to ride a dildo is essential. It can be the difference between boring routine sex and breathtaking orgasms. However, it can be quite a challenge to use a sex toy you’ve never played with before. The above tips will not only keep you safe but they will also guide you to a wild erotic adventure.