Looking for something special to do to your significant other on their birthday? Do you love involving food in your sexual activities?

Let us turn the tables, however, and give you some delicious meal ideas that you can do for your partner in order to up your sexual game.

1. Date night out on the town with your partner

As it turns out, eating for two isn’t necessarily a bad thing, even if your significant other hasn’t had a birthday for a while.

Food can be a great way to stimulate your orgasm and work with the natural vaginal lubrication that occurs during intercourse.

This could be as simple as kissing on the lips and/or neck, then having your partner eat out your mouth, and then having sex (when their mouth is empty, your lips/neck are lubricated, and it’s been a while since you last had sex).

For this date night idea, grab a small, laminated copy of a menu that you can take along with you as a cheap, durable, and realistic engagement gift for your date.

Get a 12 inch pizza, with all of the toppings, and make it your special dinner. Make sure to have enough food left over to split between the two of you, if that’s your choice, or get the whole pizza, and create a dessert feast.

Ask your partner to dress up in something fun or sexy, like lingerie or a tight pair of jeans. Head down to the restaurant, and suggest that you each enjoy a nice dinner before indulging in a birthday meal, which will make the birthday boy or girl feel special and cared about.

Afterward, head back to your place, pop open a bottle of wine, or get some chocolate cake to serve for dessert. Kiss, lick, suck, and/or make out for the remainder of the evening.

2. Fun with desserts

Nothing says “I love you” like a slice of cake on a dessert plate. Cookie sex is a sexy sex game that allows you to do something you really enjoy while also having your partner satisfy you sexually.

This can be done on multiple occasions, but this is a good one to do on the big day.

You can make it fun and playful by suggesting that you each eat a different type of cookie. I suggest a small plate of chocolate chip cookies, followed by a little container of peanut butter cup cookies.

A few marshmallows to decorate the plate make it festive.

The idea is to have a few different cookies and have your partner get each of them into their mouth, or open your mouth for you to get all of the delicious cookies in there.

This will make both of you hungry, and build excitement between the two of you. Also, feel free to place lollipops in front of the person you’re having sex with, or a stack of delicious ice cream on a spoon. The key is to add something fun to the table.

3. Getting kinkier…

Birthday sex should not be something to shy away from. There is no shame in making a dirty, naughty, or kinky play out of having sex. Let’s not forget that it’s just that, a play. If your significant other isn’t a fan of sex, or you don’t have a sex life together, this can be a fun and creative way to still enjoy each other on a regular basis.

While there are always the extra kinkier things you could do, or the low-key ones, some people do not want to have sex. Their idea of a good time is having dessert first, or getting foot rubs first. If this is you, you can still add some spice to your sex life.

One simple way to spice things up is by having your partner skip dessert. Doing this allows you to have your fun first, while also setting yourself up for an enjoyable evening and a delicious dessert to go with it. Make it a surprise date for your partner and have not-so-fast sex.

This is a fairly safe way to spice things up without involving a partner that doesn’t enjoy sexual things.

You’ll enjoy the sex and dessert after-all. Have your partner wear a blindfold for this sexy play. This will make them feel sexy and much more relaxed.

Making out with some ice cream on a spoon can be even more fun while having dessert beforehand. You don’t even have to eat ice cream for this one, as we all know that desserts are meant to be licked, not swallowed.

Do this right in front of the mirror if you can, while you put on your favorite lingerie, or some sexy underwear for a fun role-play game.

4. Sexy ideas with…pizza?

Another easy and fun birthday sex activity is to make out while having pizza. Pizza is, as many of us love to point out, delicious and can be enjoyed by just about anyone.

Pizza is also versatile enough to take into a variety of sexual acts. From kissing, to eating, and even necking, pizza can be fun for all kinds of things.

Want to make your lover feel special on their birthday? Have them come over for a fun, relaxing evening. Order some pizza, have some wine, and enjoy the time with your partner. It’s also a good idea to plan a fun date beforehand.

Go for a nice dinner together, or rent a movie, or even play a board game. The important thing is to do something to get to know your partner. There’s no shame in enjoying each other’s company, just as long as everyone is having a good time.

In order to make your pizza sex more pleasurable, it’s always better to prepare everything beforehand.

Have your partner come over and help you prepare the pizza before you make out, or you can do it yourself with the help of a rolling pin, pizza box, or the help of someplace else. Remember to have plenty of lube.

Role-playing is a great idea where he is the Pizza Boy and you are the customer. “Here’s your pizza, ‘mam” can become the sexiest phrase of the evening.