Whether you’re starting up a brand new fling or just stoking the fires of a long-running relationship, when you and your partner develop an appetite for something a bit more exciting, you can’t ignore the call of the wild.
Ready to have some fun? We’re here to talk all about the wildest things to do with your boyfriend, both in and out of the bedroom.
Of course, we’ll include our usual disclaimer here about always, ALWAYS, getting consent before launching into any kind of sexual activity with your partner, especially if it’s a new activity you haven’t tried before.
But when you’re both on the same page, things can get as wild as you’d like, and that’ll just make your sexual encounters that much more fun and adventurous.
You might find some new kinks to carry along with you, but even if you don’t take a liking to every one of our suggestions, you’ll definitely get some enjoyable memories out of these experiences, and your partner will appreciate your hunger for experimentation.
We’re starting right out of the get with a very spicy idea: getting frisky with your boyfriend in a risky place, where you just might get caught.
This is a classic fantasy for a lot of people, but few are truly brave enough to take the leap and get into some risky business.
A classic location for this particular sex-venture is on a balcony or porch. Depending on where you live, this could be quite a risky location or quite a tame one.
If you’re feeling uncomfortable about the idea of engaging in any of this outdoors, then you can also try it from the comfort of your own home. Just leave the curtains open to add that extra spice to the experience.
If you’re concerned about subjecting unsuspecting passersby to you and your partner getting a bit funky, then you can pretty easily set up a situation where you still get the excitement of perceived risk without actually being visible to the general public.
One great option for this is to mess around in a car with heavily tinted windows. You’ll both be able to see what’s going on outside while taking a very small risk of anyone seeing you through the car windows.
You could also try having some fun in a remote location where you’re unlikely to run into anyone else. You could try this during a camping trip or on a trip to a secluded beach.
If you decide on the beach, just remember to choose positions that will keep the sand away from any sensitive areas. Nothing kills the mood more than unwanted friction.
For some extra excitement, explain to your boyfriend that you both need to stay as quiet as possible while you’re getting down to business.
This extra bit of restraint can really add some heat to the mix, and it can also help prevent attracting unwanted attention when you’re both a bit … exposed.
The more the merrier
Alright, moving right along, it’s time to talk about group sex, an activity that has been a part of the human race for thousands of years.
But it has also been labeled as a taboo by many groups, which is bad news for some, but for anyone willing to try, this status only adds to the reward.
Truth is, there’s really nothing wrong at all with group sex, as long as you and your partner are both 100% on-board for the idea.
It’s completely natural to feel some reservations about group sex at first, especially if you’ve only ever engaged in completely monogamous relationships in the past.
If you find yourself simultaneously excited and nervous about the idea as a whole, then a great way to determine your true feelings on the subject is to take steps toward making it happen, without committing to anything right away.
We’ve talked before on the site about the numerous apps and websites today that specialize in group sex and non-monogamous relationships.
Many of these services offer a free sign-up option, so you can your partner can put yourselves out there for no charge and get a much better sense of what your options are.
If you do decide to take this step, don’t be afraid to be very clear about your situation. If you’re both a bit hesitant, include this in your profile.
If you both have certain limitations that you’d want to enforce, make them known. Don’t expect everyone else to read your minds.
If you manage to clear all the hurdles and move past the nagging worries, then you’ll be ready to have one of the most stimulating sexual experiences of your love life thus far.
Group sex isn’t always the magic key to having great sex, but if everyone is in the right mood, then you can all enjoy a fantastic evening together.
Adventures in toyland
We weren’t going to get through this article without at least mentioning all that sex toys can offer to you and your boyfriend.
If you’re brand new to sex toys, then we’d love to tell you all about the different kinds and how they can be used, and if you’re an old pro with adult toys, then there’s always a new favorite waiting to be found.
But the landscape goes much farther than just these types.
There are so many different kinds of sex toys out there right now, from many different brands catering to differing tastes and different bodies.
If you want, your adventures in toyland can start today. Open up a few tabs for toys that you think you and your boyfriend might be interested in.
Then you can both spend a fun hour or two going through each of them, reading customer reviews, and narrowing down the ones that you’re both excited to try.
When they arrive in the mail, it will be like a mini Christmas for your sex life.
You might not end up enjoying every single toy to the max, but learning more about yourself and your sexual preferences is always worth the time.
On the positive side of things, you just might discover a specific sex toy or type of sex toy that gets you going like nothing else. Those are some great moments, and they can quickly lead to even more exploring and even more discoveries.
The ropes that bind
Bondage is another kink that remained off the table for a lot of people for many, many years.
Especially in the realm of pop culture, there were decades and decades when movies and television treated the BDSM community like a bunch of weirdos who had been hopelessly lost to their strange collective fetish.
But there’s actually nothing weird about engaging in sexual bondage, and you may be surprised to learn that it is, in fact, one of the most common kinks among adults.
Your town may even have a bondage-centric club that offers classes and meet and greet parties.
Events like these can be a great way to get your feet wet, but if you’re feeling intimidated by the idea of exploring this kink with a group of people around, then you can also look into the many online resources that can get you started.
Aside from pure information on bondage and guidance on how to tie specific knots or go about domming or subbing for your partner, you’ll also be able to find plenty of different bondage kits that provide everything you need to get started.
You and your partner should have a chat about which of you would prefer to be more submissive and who would want to be more dominant.
Of course, actually trying each role for yourself is the best way to find out which you prefer, and don’t forget that you may end up feeling that you’re a “switch,’ which is simply someone who likes to switch between dominant and submissive roles.
All in all, bondage can be a pretty wild time for you and your boyfriend.
The position mission
To wrap up, let’s talk a little about sex positions. There’s no shortage of lists of sexual positions online, along with visuals and sometimes even detailed instructions on how the position is supposed to work, and this is only good news.
You can easily spend a whole afternoon poring over these long lists, bookmarking specific positions for you and your boyfriend to try as soon as possible.
The most common positions for most couples (missionary, doggy, etc.) are all well and good, but doing them over and over can lead to a certain amount of boredom and sameness.
Thankfully, there are literally hundreds and hundreds of more creative and more complicated sexual positions, and some are best-suited to different body types.
But looking for new ones and giving them a shot can quickly make your sex life a lot more interesting and give you more options for future encounters.