Never compare your vagina with that of your favorite pornstars. Some dicks are going to feel more “right” than others, and that’s fine. Finding the best sex positions for a tight vagina should be on every couple’s to-do list. We’ll take a look at positions that can make sex more enjoyable for both you and your partner. 

Intense sensations for all to enjoy

Everyone can benefit from learning sex positions that will make a vagina feel tight and snug. Even virgins will benefit from checking out sex positions for a tight vagina.

To help prevent painful sex while trying these positions, be sure to take a few basic precautions. In addition to using your choice of lubricant, make sure you know what causes pain during penetrative sex. If you feel that your vagina is rather tight already, have some lube ready.

A quick solution to “loosen up” is to apply lube and take a missionary position so that your partner can thrust without causing any significant pain. Another practical approach is to warm up using a vibrator of your choice.

In fact, if you can orgasm before he gets in, the better. Orgasms relax vaginal muscles. Do not forget to lubricate the labia to make sex less painful.

So which are the best sex positions for tight vagina?

As a woman, take charge and be in control over the angle and depth of penetration in all sex positions to make sex comfortable at any given time. Make sure you are aroused before letting his penis in. During foreplay, the vagina expands, and natural lubrication starts. Only then should you let your partner slowly direct his penis inside your vagina.

The cobra

Let the man lie down and bend his knees upwards while spreading his legs outwards for you to fit in. Get in between his legs and use your hands to hold yourself upright – it is more like assuming the man’s position in missionary. Roll in slowly using your hips and start a rubbing motion. For even more excitement, you can thrust hard and deep to your liking.

His legs should be squeezing yours to give you an ecstatic feeling.

Prone bone 

Assume a flat lying position like you’re on a massage table. Your legs should be wide enough to give him an easy entry from behind. Once he gets the position, keep your legs together.

Take your pelvis up to let him go deeper and feel him stroking from different angles. The advantage of this position is rubbing your clit from below using your fingers as he thrusts from behind.

The cello

Lie on your back, press your legs together as you lift them, probably with his help. He will kneel before you as he directs your feet to one side, and he should start playing you like, well, a cello.

If there is a challenge in putting your legs straight, bend them at the knee, or depending on his shoulder height, put them across the shoulders and enjoy the fun.

The position, also known as the legs up, increases the tightness in your vagina. The pelvis gets the pressure coming from your feet through the legs and especially when you are about to orgasm. Add more of a squeeze by closing your ankles close to your thighs. 

The c-ring

Lie on one side of your body with the bottom leg sliding in between his. He will make an entry from behind as he pushes your leg for a deeper thrust. Make things a little exciting by adding lube in your hands and circle his penis using your thumb and index finger right at the entry of your vagina.

The C-Ring sex position also gives you the freedom to rub yourself with your free hand. If marathon sex was on the menu today, this snugly position fits and can work perfectly.

Squeeze play

Take up a doggy style as you hold on to your bed while pressing your legs tight. The position may be painful as he makes an entry but promises a deeper penetration, even for a tight vagina. Arch the back and tilt your butt for a fulfilling sensation, and feel his penis thrusting deep inside you.

Make it even more exciting by trying to use your Kegels to match his thrusts. You will not want him to stop.

Lotus position

This position is not for the faint-hearted. However, it allows for sensual intimacy levels that enable you to kiss and play around with him. The man should sit with legs crossed. Mount him as you lower yourself slowly onto him. Once you are comfortable, wrap your legs around his waist, and squeeze him using your pelvic muscles.

Lotus position brings couples together due to the closeness and proximity that builds intimacy.

Missionary

Missionary may be an old way of becoming intimate between lovers. However, for ease of penetration, even for a tight vagina, introduce some variations. Instead of spreading your legs to let him in, keep your legs tight. 

The missionary position works well between partners who understand each other’s movements.

Make use of a pillow

Use a favorite pillow and place it under your pelvis to give more support. Bend the knees and propel the pelvis upwards as you spread your legs to allow comfortable thrusting. The good thing about this position is maximum clitoral stimulation and increased depth of penetration.

Sunset riding

This position, also called reverse cowgirl, puts you in control.

Take the woman on top position as your man lies down. Apart from intense kissing and eye contact, you can control the rhythm that makes the sexual experience better. Sunset riding enables you to position your clit to a desirable position to enhance the pleasure even further.

While maintaining this position, use his legs as an anchor as you rock your pelvis in a back and forward motion as you look for a comfortable rhythm.

Lean on me

Turn to the nearest wall and lean against it. Let him face you and have him hold your butt as you hook your legs around him for support. Rub your clitoris on his genitals to initiate lubrication on your vulva. Create a rhythm that allows for the movement of your body to thrust in and out.

Side cuddle

You can decide to face each other or allow him to enter from behind. When facing your partner, take hold of his shaft and thrust it in, to your comfort. If trying this from behind, use your buttocks to regulate his speed of entry. However, make sure that if he is hitting it from the back, he remains still as you create your pace and control his penetration depth.

Why Do Some Women Experience Painful Sex?

There is nothing as repulsive as sex if it hurts whenever your lover is penetrating. Women will experience pain during intercourse for different reasons, including menopause, anxiety, virginity, and vaginismus.

If you are experiencing pain during sex, you need to consult a gynecologist to help rule out any form of infection that may lead to a painful sexual experience. Gynecologists and sexologists will also help in determining what sex positions for a tight vagina are suitable in your case.

Penetrative sex should be enjoyable, and if you can follow some of the styles above, you will start enjoying sex. Let us look at some of the causes behind women having a painful sexual experience.

Lack of experience

A good number of women indicate that losing virginity was a painful experience. Losing your virginity through a painful experience can keep you off sex for years. To avoid such scenarios, follow some of the tips below.

• Talk about sex before you have sex by identifying what you want and don’t want.
• Spend most of your initial contact on foreplay, which should increase your arousal levels, thus lowering the perception of pain. There is a possibility that the more excited you are, the more lubricated you become and the less painful the penetrative sex.
• Before you allow him to penetrate, apply lubrication
• Guide his penis into your vagina slowly. Let him use his finger as he adds another one until you feel comfortable. Some women prefer the man to penetrate as soon as he starts to break the hymen instead of teasing.
• If you want to control his penetration, try the woman on top or use the missionary style to ease communication between the two of you. Please note that every sex position depends on how you relate to your partner.

A naturally tight vagina

A vagina naturally expands during sexual encounters. You may remain tight if nothing is exciting yet, if you feel anxious, or you did not take time to prepare your mind and body for sex. In a scenario where he has a big penis, you need some lubrication and more time for your genitals to be ready.

Also, note that men who talk of small vaginas probably refer to the feeling they get when they hit the cervix. Not every woman likes this feeling.

Some of the positions to avoid him bumping into the cervix include being on top, spooning, and missionary without raising your legs.

Menopause

Age can make sex an exciting or a boring experience for women. As you age, your vaginal tissues start thinning due to the reduction of estrogen production in the body. Any time you feel like your pain is coming from menopause try using the following approaches:

• Seek topical hormone replacement, which can be in the form of gels, creams, and small insertable pills. However, consider the possible risks involved when seeking hormonal replacements in gels, patches, or tablets.
• Make use of a good lubricant.
• Try the organic ways of increasing estrogens using phytoestrogens that include tablets taken with foods.
• As you reach the menopausal age, you should be spending most of your time on foreplay and using lubricants to make the sexual experience less painful.

Vaginismus

Some women lose control of their pelvic muscles either due to age or some other conditions. If you have vaginismus, even the thought of fingering yourself is uncomfortable. One of the things you can do is to visit a specialist who can recommend the best dilators.

The Bottom Line

Sex should never be a painful experience, unless you want it to be. Even if a particular position works well with an old partner, it may not work with the new partner. Whether a man’s personal preference aligns with yours should tell you how the sexual encounter might feel. If you like a particular position despite the pain you feel, bring in the dimension of finding a comfortable position for both of you to get maximum satisfaction.

All the sex positions for a tight vagina in this guide put your clitoris as the primary source of your pleasure. The best approach to make sex less painful is communication, and do not forget to lubricate. The two help reduce discomfort and friction, thus paving the way to fulfilling your sexual fantasies.

Having a positive attitude toward sex comes from being open and communicating more often with your partner. This will loosen the tension between you for more sex-ploration and sex-perimentation with your man. Keep in mind that the best type of sex is when you exchange feelings and desires that flow freely, eliminating the pressure to perform, focusing instead on pleasure.