Hands-Free Experience

Dildos are one of the most basic varieties of sex toys, and they’re also one of the most popular. If you have any interest in sex toys, then you should own at least one.

And that doesn’t just apply to women, but we’ll talk more about that later.

And suction cup dildos add a whole new element to the experience. Most importantly, they let you play without holding the toy at all.

Suction cup dildos let you ride the toy the same way you would ride a sexual partner. And since they come in a variety of styles and sizes, it’s easy to find one that works for you.

In this article, we’ll cover how to use a suction cup dildo, either alone or with a partner. We’ll also make some recommendations for different kinds of suction cup dildos that you may want to order for yourself.

Find Your Toy

Before having fun with suction cup dildos, you’ll need to buy one of your own. But where do you start?

Well, we’ve picked out a few of our favorites for you to consider. You may also want to visit a sex toy store in your area, where you’ll be able to ask the sales associates for their recommendations or in-depth details about each model.

1.Au Naturel Dildo 7”

The Au Naturel Dildo is a pretty basic version of the suction cup dildo. It comes in a few different colors.

It has a 2” girth and 7” of the total 8” are insertable. And whereas many dildos are pure silicone, which leaves them a bit floppy, the Au Naturel has a flexible spine inside of it, meaning you can pose the dildo for increased fun.

2. Dr. Joe Wired Remote Control Vibrating Realistic Cock 8”

Dr. Joe Wired Remote Control Vibrating Realistic Cock 8″ also doubles as an insertable vibrator! And since it’s a vibrator and not just a dildo, we should also mention that this toy is waterproof, making it a great option for the shower.

This toy also has the same girth and insertable dimensions as the Au Naturel. Obviously, the star of the show here is the vibration feature, which is controlled via a wired remote control device.

If your partner ever wants to join in on the fun, hand them the remote and let them control the intensity.

3. Jelly Royale Dong With Suction Cup 6 Inch Clear

The Jelly Royale Dong With Suction Cup 6 Inch Clear sports a realistic shape and design, complete with balls, its see-through color helps set it apart from the crowd.

Roughly 5” of the total 6” is insertable, and it doesn’t contain a poseable spine, meaning this toy will be a bit more flexible than some of its competitors.

4. Basix Dong Suction Cup 10 Inch

And if you’re feeling especially adventurous, then you should check out the Basix Dong Suction Cup 10 Inch.

This toy is made from rubber and is completely latex-free, so if you have a latex allergy, you won’t have to worry with this one.

And just to address the elephant in the room here, this toy is big. If you’re just getting started with dildos and sex toys in general, then you probably shouldn’t start with this particular model.

Don’t Forget the Lube

When playing with just about any kind of sex toy, you should make sure to have some lube handy, just in case.

When playing with a dildo of any size, it’s a good rule of thumb to put a good deal of lube on the toy first, as well as on your vaginal or anal opening.

Playing with dildos without using lubricant of any kind isn’t just uncomfortable, it can also be dangerous. Without sufficient lubrication, you could be risking internal tearing.

Using Alone

So now that we’ve shown you a few different models of suction cup dildos, let’s talk about different ways to play with one on your own.

On The Floor

One of the easiest ways to masturbate with a suction cup dildo is to attach it to the floor of your bedroom, or wherever else you’ll be playing.

But you will need to do a little bit of prep. For one thing, suction cup dildos will not work on carpeting or rugs.

You’ll want to aim for a floor with a hard, smooth surface. Hardwood floors and tile floors are some of the most common types that meet these criteria.

If your bedroom and most of your home happens to be carpeted, then your best bet is to try for a bathroom or kitchen floor, both of which tend to be made using floor tiles.

Once you’ve found a spot with plenty of room, make sure that both the floor and the toy’s suction cup are clean and dry.

If either starts to get too dirty or covered with dust and other debris, then the suction cup may not work very well, leaving you to use the toy as a regular dildo.

As we mentioned above, you should make an effort to use lube on the toy and yourself to make the experience more pleasurable.

Once that’s out of the way, the rest should be fairly self-explanatory. While resting on your knees, straddle the dildo and line up the tip with the opening of either your vagina or your butt.

Then slowly lower your body and sit on the dildo. Moving slowly is the key here. Even if you’re experienced with dildos in general, you should take your time with your toy and not rush things.

Once you’ve gotten used to the girth and firmness of your toy, you can start to speed up according to your personal preference.

Since you don’t need either of your hands to hold the dildo in place, you can use them to play with parts of your body.

Try pinching your nipples while riding your dildo or rub your clitoris to enhance your sensitivity and pleasure.

In the Shower

Another easy way to play with your suction cup dildo is to stick it to a wall of your shower. It’s important here to make sure the wall is completely dry before attaching the dildo.

And since you’ll need to reach the toy while bending over, you should make sure that you don’t place the toy too high, which would make playing difficult or just plain impossible.

It’s also important to remember that water doesn’t work the same way as lube. In certain situations, it can actually increase friction, and that’s not what you want when masturbating.

You can ride a suction cup dildo in the shower either standing up and slightly bent or down on all fours to simulate doggy style sex.

Using with a Partner

Suction cup dildos are also great for playing with your partner. You’ll still ride the toy the same as you would on your own, but while in the presence of your partner, your erogenous zones will be much for sensitive.

Ask your partner to play with your breasts or pull your hair while you ride your dildo. You could also ask your partner to masturbate while watching you play with the dildo.

Not Just for Women

And don’t forget that suction cup dildos aren’t just for women, either! Men who enjoy anal play can also benefit from having at least one in their collection.

When buying a suction cup dildo as a man, a big consideration is the overall size of the toy. Take some time to consider what size you’re currently comfortable with. Using lubricant will still be very important.

You may also want to look for a model that could potentially be attached to a harness that your partner can wear.

Location, Location, Location

If you enjoy playing in places other than your home, then you should try to find a fairly compact suction cup dildo that you can keep with you when traveling or visiting a partner’s home.

In certain situations, you may even be able to use a suction cup dildo outdoors, as long as you can find a smooth surface to place it on.

The key here is to be adventurous, finding new and exciting ways to find pleasure by yourself or with a partner.

Variety is the Spice of Life

Since suction cup dildos are relatively inexpensive, then you may end up wanting to purchase several different models.

After all, variety is the spice of life. Each design will offer its own sources of pleasure and could work for different settings or situations.

And if you’ve tried suction cup dildos and enjoyed them, there’s just too much to explore within this specific area of sex toys.

Maybe you’ll enjoy a vibrating dildo more than the rest. Maybe you’ll prefer a smaller model so that you can ride it faster than others.

It all comes down to your personal tastes and the ambition to find out new things about your sexuality.

For example, if you’ve been curious about anal play for a while, then a suction cup dildo can be the perfect way for you the explore those sensations without needing to involve a partner.

Take a look at several different models you like and make sure to check for user reviews that can provide further details.