Sucking a boner from the back is a new level of kinky.  The act of giving oral is popular for just about everyone, especially men. Therefore, their partners should understand the technicalities and science behind what makes for a fun oral experience.

Giving a blowjob from behind sounds like a taboo, but this article has all the answers you need about this fun and wild activity for you and your partner to enjoy. Read on for some tips and tricks that will take your blowjob game to a whole new level. 

So we can suck it from the back? 

Taking a suck from the back may sound unconventional but not every time your partner needs to kneel to suck it. Here are some tips on what you and your partner can do to give head from the back.

Do some mental prep

The moment you and your partner are in that room, you should prepare your mind for a head session. You know why the bulge is there, and you want it. For you to have a good time, make sure he is in the right frame of mind as well. In addition, ensure that you have a clean mouth and ready to take on the cock.

Start slow

It is not a matter of drawing it out. Give your partner a pre-amble of what is coming. Try the body-to-body experience that leads to a mind-blowing orgasm. The idea is to find a comfortable zone for both of you as you get to the blowing zone.

Let everything come in naturally without so much expectation. When you find something that pleases you, let your partner know and start enjoying it as part of an entire blowjob session. Now let him pass the cock between his legs into your moist mouth. 

Frenulum flicking 

Flicking the Frenulum is an old trick involving the underside of the penis head. Kiss the tip of the penis as you move downwards. Then start moving up and down the entire shaft, adding some light kisses before taking the whole penis. The idea is to get the feel of the penis in terms of scent, length, and texture.

Flicking the Frenulum also helps in building saliva. Slowly try licking your lips over the head then pause. Your partner should enjoy the heat coming from your mouth as you breathe. He should be throbbing by now, an indication that he is ready to take on a deep throat. 

Study the penis 

This is the moment to stop talking and listen to every groan, sounds, and roars. Then move with the flow. Note how he responds by looking at the way the penis reacts to your licks and sucks. 

Do not wait for any instruction on what to do. Do whatever he acknowledges being good and ensure it is your best performance that will lead to a strong hard-on and a matching cum. It’s important to also limit your conversation to avoid performance anxiety. 

Take him to the ideal zone, where breathing and moaning is the only form of communication. Gauge his reaction using the dick inside your mouth. Watch him jump while throbbing as this equates to happiness while pre-cum indicates a thrilling session. Enjoy the moment and do not worry about time. 

During the kissing session, there is no communication. Oral sex applies the same rule unless you are seeking domination. 

Enjoy the act 

The best opportunity to enjoy the suck is when learning how to suck dick from the back. Sex is an all-exciting activity, and above all, blowjobs are purely for your pleasure. 

A good suck is doing what feels good to your partner by taking control. When sucking his dick, do it as if you are enjoying it. Enjoy his dick intimately and take as much time as you want. A good dick sucking experience is giving as much as you want. 

It is not about him cumming 

Expecting something from an oral session is the perception of many people. However, the point of oral sex is never to expect him to cum. Do not take it as a job that you have to get something in return.

Get rid of that mindset to avoid rushing through the entire experience to achieve your goal. Moreover, sucking dick is not everyone’s cup of tea. So give head up to the point you feel most comfortable. 

Use the tongue

Licking a dick depends on the size of his dick and the size of your mouth. Large dick interferes with your tongue movement. You can make up for this by licking the head, taint (between the hole and the testicles) shaft, and balls. The four areas guarantee intense pleasure.

Breathe over it

Master the art of breathing by sucking in air. Pull your cheeks inside against the teeth as you tighten insides of your mouth, leaving a vacuum-like chamber holding the penis. It is a useful technique, but you cannot keep on doing it because you do not intend to lose saliva necessary for lubrication. 

Get comfortable breathing with his dick inside your mouth, stop when you feel like quitting, pause, and then breathe. The breathing experience gives the two of you great pleasure as you adjust to the new feeling. 

Push the limits

Deep-throating is one such limit. Try to experiment on how far you can swallow his cock. However, remember not everyone can deep throat. Therefore, not all should push the boundaries because it may lead to tissue injuries. 

Secondly, a good milking session demands intense sucking and the use of hands. Using the hands occasionally means you can focus on the penis tip as you improve the handjob. Use as much saliva as possible because you want a slippery shaft moving up and down with ease. 

In addition, make use of oral vibrators when learning how to suck dick from the back. A good blowjob experience is like an art. You play the piano with a blindfold for an audience that you are anxious to please. 

Sucking dick is not easy especially when it comes from the back. However, it is fun. A man only needs to say how they like it with enough details so that they receive the best experience from their partners. 

Give eye contact

During an oral session, you may end up disappointing your partner for giving a good head with zero eye contact. Do not stare, but occasionally give him that sexy look as you take him inside your mouth and note his reaction.

Some men may think that failure to look at him may indicate that you are not having a good time. Show him the excitement of servicing his glorious package through your eyes.

Did you forget his balls?

The balls may not be part of your preference. If they are clean and your partner enjoys some ball play, then be his squirrel for hire and go nuts on the balls. Tease him by tempting to go for his taint or anus as you watch him tremble in anticipation.

However, be cautious when handling the balls, because you do not want to harm an excited partner.

The dos and don’ts of giving head

Preparation

Be aware that the penis is also part of the skin and it may have a natural scent. Those suffering from penile amnesia cannot stand the taste of a penis. If you’re OK, you need to be enthusiastic about giving your partner the best suck. The receiver needs some excitement for him to appreciate your efforts. 

Make sure you are with a man who observes good hygiene. One who does not allow bacterial growth under the penis shaft. Let him know that you will be okay if he does take good care of his package.

Lubrication 

Lubricants are an essential part of sex. However, saliva is the best lube for blowjobs. Lubrication eliminates friction making the sucking more comfortable. Drink some water before you start if your mouth feels a little dry.  

The act of lubrication makes it a more fun, smooth, and pleasurable sexual activity. If saliva is not responding, settle for the fruity flavored lubes that may also add flavor to your game. 

Find rhythm and direction 

On how to suck dick from the back, a vigorous approach using the hands and mouth is not pleasurable. Take good care of the penis like you would your most sensitive body part. Treat it like delicate glass, but always find a rhythm to use. More like giving CPR, you suck in and out rhythmically.

You will never find a straight penis even when sucking from the back. Therefore, insert the dick into your mouth according to the direction of the penis. 

Stroke the penis as you would a human hair against the grain. You also need to engage with your partner’s hand. Knowing the hand he uses to pleasure himself guarantees a mind-blowing orgasm by mimicking the action using your mouth. 

Follow the rhythm, and you will be on the driving seat leading him to pleasure by teasing and driving him crazy as you wish. 

Keep your teeth out of the equation

Your teeth can end up barring you from getting a good blowjob CV. Teeth can change the pleasure moments into painful moments in a matter of seconds. One crucial lesson on how to suck dick from the back is learning how to blow men with a wide penis girth. 

Getting teeth out of the way during a blowjob may look simple. However, it needs considerable training or experience. Be the best by using the following tips to keep your teeth off the pleasure zone. 

• First, open your mouth as wide as possible, curl the lips underneath your teeth, and keep still for a few seconds then release. Practicing at least four or five times a day will show some improvements. 
• Secondly, take lessons from opera singers. Opera singers take a raw egg and placing it inside their mouths and attempt to close without breaking the egg. The jaw will not close as long as the egg stays in the mouth, keeping the surrounding muscles tense. This will train your jaw muscles to remain open even when the going gets tough.
• The last step in keeping your teeth out of the way is to let go when your jaw muscles start getting tired. Remember that your hands complement your mouth so well when it comes to sucking dick. 
• Be in Control

When you are busy draining his balls from the back, ensure you locate erogenous zones to add to the varying sensations. While giving your partner a blowjob, remember that you are always in-charge, and yield some power over him. 

Blowjob does not start and end with the dick. Play with the nipples, neck, earlobes, buttocks, perineum, and back of the knees to increase his sensations. The good old rule is to make sure that you do not get a jaw lock or get less sexy. Switch to another activity, if possible. 

Bring your tongue into the game by tracing the shaft up and down as you tease. Flick your tongue below the foreskin occasionally during the entire session. When using the tongue, it is easy to tell when you hit the hot spots by listening to the receiver’s reactions. 

Listen to the groan. Watch out for the shudder, or wait for some encouraging words from him.

Closing words

Sucking a dick is now a popular way of seeking pleasure among adults. Make sure it is something you also enjoy or want to experience and start working your way towards being a master or queen of blowjobs. On the other hand, having someone to suck your dick from the back is more intense and pleasurable especially when you use bondage ropes and submit. Do some role reversal and suck as the master. Ultimately, any new skill needs the practice to be perfect. The tips we have here can transform you into a professional cocksucker. A final word of advice, suck dicks that are clean and from disease-free people.