Sex is a two-way street. To the majority of men, what this means is still a mystery. For example, do you know how to give a woman the best orgasm? Most men are oblivious to the fact that many women still do not experience orgasms during sex. This has contributed to a great majority of women feeling undersexed.

So, what can you do to change this situation for your significant other or even that random fling? Let’s discuss.

Build Anticipation

Both genders are hardwired to seek out sex. The reality though is that there are huge physiological differences between men and women. A man will get it up and be ready for sex in less than five minutes. It doesn’t matter whether this partner is a stranger or not. For women though, it takes a bit more time to even get in the mood.

Engage her biggest sex organ. Her brain! In order for a woman to be prepared for sex, it is better if she’s had time to mull over it. Deal with any hindrances such as distractions or stress triggers.

For your partner, you can take the whole day throwing suggestive lines at her. Tell her what you’re going to do to her. Reassure her beauty, compliment her, and romanticize her. Let her contemplate what she’s in for later in the day. Her brain will do some major work for you.

Build Your Launchpad

If she’s coming over or you already live together, get home early in advance and set the stage. Put on some soft, soothing music, dim the lights, and most importantly, freshen up.

Next, scale up your foreplay game. Women need time to be brought to a level where they can experience orgasm. You need to know what to do, when to do it, and how.

A woman’s body is chock full of erogenous zones. Working on the right one at the right time slowly builds up pleasure and pushes her closer to orgasm. The following tips will help you master her body, which will turn her into putty in your hands. Not only will these turn her on, but also the repressed sexual creature will be brought forth.

Use Your Lips

Most men make the mistake of thinking that simple kisses will turn their women on. Start with slow but deep kisses. Mind your tongue. Tease her with it. After she is hooked, pull away slowly and look her straight in the eyes. Let her feel your warm breath and maintain eye contact.

All this time, you are encouraged to maintain physical contact with her through your arms. Women respond positively when someone, whom they feel comfortable with, embraces them. 

The action of pulling back will only make her want you more. Let her come to you this time.

Tease Her with Kisses

Kissing for long stretches time can get boring. Teasing her will help spice things up. Pull back as you did before, and make her come to you again. Only this time, pull back again as soon as your lips touch.

Smiling at her during this time will only show her that you are playing, otherwise, she may interpret your actions as straightforward rejection.

Repeat this action two to three times and when she least expects it, kiss her deeply, and get on top of her if you’re lying down. If standing, push her to a wall. The move signifies that you are taking control.

Bite Her Lips

The biting involved here should be gentle. The main reason you should use this method is to add some variety to the kissing. It also helps reveal her aggressive nature if she reciprocates. Some women love to be dominated, and biting her lower lip regularly will make her submissive and put you in control.

Kiss Her Neck

The neck is one of the most sensitive areas to touch. Soft kisses along the sides of her neck will send tingles throughout her body. However, you should not overdo this, lest she gets used to it. Sexologists have encouraged people to alternate between her neck and her lips for maximum contact.

Kissing the neck should extend to below the ear lobe and all the way down to her chest. It’s also the best time to unbutton her blouse so that you can get more contact with her body. Slowly run your hands over her naked upper body while you play with her neck and lips.

Nipple Play

A woman’s nipples are her go-to erogenous zone when she’s feeling frisky. As you kiss her neck, slowly turn her until her back faces you. This is a power move for when you are standing or upright.

The nape of her neck is a pleasure center. Kiss it gently. Simultaneously, put her nipples between your forefinger and thumb and rub gently. 

Kiss Her Down to Her Belly Button

Slow and passionate kisses should be extended down her naked upper body to the belly button. Play around her belly with your lips and tongue to maximize contact. Come back to her breasts and play around with her nipples. Make sure that you are unbuttoning her trousers but leave the panties on.

You should also make sure that you are playing with both her nipples; one with your fingers and the other with your tongue and lips. Make sure you alternate between the two. At this point, the anticipation will drive her to begin undressing you.

Take the Game Down Under

Once her trousers are off, take your attention to her lower body. The majority of men dive straight to her vagina. As tempting as this may be, a warm-up is highly recommended.

Start with kissing her inner thighs.

You can begin from her knees going upwards. A considerable number of women experience high sensitivity behind the knee. Make sure you pay close attention to her reactions and facial expressions when you work your way up her legs. This will give you clues as to what feels enjoyable to her.

Concentrate your attention towards her inner thighs as you work your way up. One of your hands should be playing with her nipples for maximum contact. Playing around her vulva with her panties on will increase her anticipation. Run your fingers, then tongue up and down her vulva before pulling down her panties.

Let Your Fingers Do the Talking

Now that her panties are off, tease her, build anticipation. Ignore the clitoris at first. Lick her vagina lips, over and between them, up and down, side to side. Then, form a peace sign with your fingers. Apply pressure to either side of the clitoris while the base of the V shape formed by your fingers remains above her clitoris.

Use the tip of your tongue to lick her clitoris gently. Teasing her during this process will build stimulation. Every woman’s anatomy is different. Some have clits that are sensitive to touch, others you can nibble lightly on. Watch her reaction, or better yet, ask her how she likes it.

This is her pleasure center. Lick it good! Take your time flicking your tongue from side to side, up and down and around the hood. This is a guaranteed orgasm generator.

Wet your index and middle fingers and slip them into her vagina. Turn your palm upwards. On the front of the vagina (facing the belly button) lies the G Spot. Its ridged texture is similar to that of the roof of your mouth.

Once you locate it, curl your fingers into a “Come Hither” motion. Continue with that motion until you feel it contract. 

Alternate Between Her Vagina and Inner Thighs

An essential pointer: women can experience multiple orgasms within a short period. However, it would be better to let her cool down from the intensity and shaking. Simply move away from her vulva to her thighs.

Before you return, observe her reaction towards touch. If she jerks from contact, she probably needs a minute or two to cool down. If her response is relaxed and she is comfortable, resume service.

Slow and Deep Strokes

After she has had as many orgasms as she likes, it’s time to take things to the next step. Avoid rushing the penetration as the goal is for her to enjoy every second of it. Start with slow but deep strokes. You should pull at least 75 percent of your penis out and then pushing it gently all the way back.

Combine Touch with Deep Strokes

By now, you should be aware of how effective foreplay is. Deep strokes go hand in hand with passionate neck kissing. Don’t just stop there, move all the way down to her nipples and alternate between the two. Adapt to her rhythm as this will show you exactly how she wants it done.

Switch Positions

Trying different positions will make your sexual experience more exceptional. Try mixing positions such as missionary and the famous 69. Doggy style has also been seen as the most influential if you want to stimulate her. Let her be on top for a change as she will help to determine the pace and rhythm of sex.

Use Sex Toys

Yes, not every man is fond of using sex toys. However, when used correctly, they can have a lasting positive effect on her. Make sure she is on board with this before making the decision.

You can try something like the Satisfyer Clitoral Stimulation which comes in handy, in stimulating her clitoris. It will speed up her journey to an orgasm, especially if you are in a doggy style position. Rubbing gently on her clitoris will work the same way your finger did during foreplay.

Sometimes you may experience lubrication issues. It’s not uncommon, especially if you have had sex for an extended period. If you continue having sex at this point, you risk being injured. It’s not safe to use unknown lubricants as they may pose health risks. You can try using Wicked Aqua Strawberry Lube as it has been proven to take a pounding and has no side effects.

Pick Up the Pace

When things start to get interesting, you should try to pick up the pace. Increasing tempo while employing slow deep strokes will help stimulate her to another type of orgasm: vaginal. Maintain this rhythm for five minutes and observe her reaction as you go on. Listen to her direction. She may want it harder and faster, or slower and deeper. However, if she is experiencing discomfort, slow down.

Do You Play With the Nipples?

Whatever position you are in, try to reach over to play or suck her nipples. Aside from the clitoris, nothing else can drive a woman to orgasm as effectively as the nipples.

Kiss them, lick them, pinch them, bite them, flick them, pull them, slap them. Experiment with what works for your girl but use it in moderation.

Conclusion

The moment you give a woman multiple orgasms, she will see you in a different light. She may even be more open to doing more kinky stuff as she knows she will be well taken care of. Nothing else works wonders for your relationship like giving a woman an orgasm. Chances are you will get a return booty call very soon.

If your partner has not been responsive towards your sexual techniques in the past, now you know how to give a woman the best orgasm. The power to change that is now in your hands. Use the tips mentioned above and she will be in the mood to bump uglies more often than you think.