In today’s society, it’s imperative to keep yourself interested in your partner, hence our potential role-playing ideas. 

After all, it is not the size of the boat, but the motion in the ocean.

There are many role-playing ideas which you can do in the bedroom with your partner. The idea is to keep your interest piqued throughout the relationship. 

It’s important to keep your partner wanting more, this is called the “mutual satisfaction” factor. 

Do you really want to be with someone who only cares about themselves? I think not. 

Take the time to build a solid relationship with your partner, you will notice an improvement in your relationship that will never be matched. 

In addition to this, you have to build a solid foundation in the relationship. So, don’t settle for just having sex with someone, have a friendship, and build your relationship up and throughout.

Benefits of role-playing

There are many benefits to role-playing. 

One of the most important benefits is the trust factor. Trust is essential in any relationship. As a lover, you should feel safe and comfortable. 

Therefore, if you have trust and are into role-playing, you can role-play what you would want to do with your partner, like leaving a note for them on the bathroom mirror or sleeping together, you can also role-play what you’d want to do if your partner has an ex. 

They can still enjoy your time together. The important thing is to focus on having a healthy and happy relationship.

Student – Teacher

This is great for reliving your high school days. Remember that sexy teacher who you always had your eye on when you were a student? 

This fantasy brings out sexual themes we’ve all had pent up since we were a teenager and can be a lot of fun to play out.

Take turns with this type of role-playing. Give each other an assignment and each partner on how to complete it. 

Masseuse – Client

What is more fun than going and getting a massage? We all know how massages are supposed to relieve stress and tension… why not give your partner the ‘professional’ massage he or she deserves.

Make sure to act professionally and really give your partner the illusion that you are going to a spa! Make them undress in the other room and come out with a towel.

Doctor – Patient

This game requires a doctor to treat the female counterpart, whilst playing his role as a doctor. 

The doctor may need to examine the patient closely, and may become aroused when inspecting him or her. 

The authority of a doctor can be a big turn on for some of us, so have fun with this one/

Coach – Athlete

A coach’s job is to train a wannabe superstar athlete to be the best they can possibly be. So the coach will not go easy on you.

Sit on the edge of the bed, facing the opposite direction. Assume the position of a physical coach who is holding an athlete by the shoulder pads with your hands. 

Tell them they have what it takes for success but they are going to need training first, and part of the training requires getting close to the trainer…very close.

Star Trek fleet comander – Klingon

Are you and your partner into sci fi? It is good to bring up to these types of people that they can try role playing with someone who has the same interests as they do.

Role-playing games and fantasy worlds

Role-playing games are played by making up stories about imaginary people and events. Although there are very few games that strictly require the players to role play, most role-playing games require some sort of imagination, creativity, or social skills.

Fantasy worlds are equally as colorful and interesting. They are full of romance, magic, and surprises. They come from different cultures and perspectives. For example, Lord of the Rings is set in a Middle-Earth that is different from ours.

The locations, characters, and people are endless. They can take place in different times and places or be completely fictional.

The online role-playing communities have also brought the world of fantasy worlds to life with the implementation of game worlds in online social networks.

You can talk to these worlds in the real world or stay up to date on them by visiting online forums.

Beyond role playing

In addition to role-playing, there are other ways to spice up your relationship. For example, if your partner is not an athletic guy, get them to take dance lessons. 

You can take this concept to the bedroom, for example, you can take your partner to a hotel for the weekend. You can give them a list of things to do, but the important thing is to create fun memories. 

Take a trip, take a hike, or anything in the outdoors. You can have a picnic or take a hike to the beach. Just get out of the city, go camping or just go out to dinner. You’ll have fun, the date is up and running and you’ll have something to talk about. 

This leads us to the third strategy which is to get out of your comfort zone, for example, you can try rollerblading. I think you get the point.

The possibilities are endless

So, if you’re a role player in the bedroom, take the opportunity to get creative and take the relationship to the next level, that’s right up there with the home improvement projects.

If you do not enjoy role-playing in the bedroom, don’t make it a part of your sex life with your partner. 

Make it a part of your sex life with a friend if you’re into role play. You do not have to turn it into your sex life with your partner.