After you have just been in a fight sometimes the best thing to do to put your relationship back on good footing is to have some good-old-fashion-make-up sex.
Make up sex goes back to the reason you two fell in love in the first place and sparks the attraction that you two felt before you were mad at each other.
This article looks at some sex ideas to get your imagination running, and also lists some ways to bring sex back into the bedroom so that you don’t forget how to have a great time when you get intimate!
1. Sex on the Beach
Everyone has had this fantasy, but few have turned it into a reality. This sex idea may be difficult if you don’t find yourself near a secluded beach but if you can plan it out, it can be really worth the while.
This idea can easily be swapped for hot tub or swimming pool sex, which allows you to both be naked in a semi public place and have that rush that you both had so long ago (note: we do not condone anything illegal! 🙂
Shower sex works just the same and can be very exciting while you both rush to find the most sensual position. There is nothing like sex under hot water.
2. Give her a massage
Give your significant other a well-deserved massage before you get down to the good stuff.
Starting out with a massage is a great way to release the tension and begin touching each other.
No need to go fast, take it slow and let one thing lead to another.
3. Do it the way they like it most
This does not mean that you have to kiss their feet or anything. This simply means that you’re being attentive to them in the bedroom, and you’re being considerate. If you have only ever had intercourse, try a combination of different types of sexual positions, such as doggy-style or reverse cowgirl.
4. Get dressed up for your partner
A little entertainment never hurts. You don’t have to take them to an elegant restaurant or fancy restaurant.
You can also go out to the movies. It’s just being polite and mindful that you want to be your partner’s top priority at the moment. This shows that you are willing to invest in their well-being.
5. Ask them what they want
Be open and honest. Ask your partner what they like and don’t like in bed. Are there positions they would prefer?
Things you do that they really like? You want to find out what makes your partner feel the best during sex. Ask them about the position they like the best.
If you are really adventurous, you can suggest a few different positions that your partner has not tried before. It can get a little more adventurous if you are trying things that they might not be too comfortable with at first.
6. Know what you want
It’s perfectly okay to tell your partner what you like or don’t like. If you’re not sure what you like in bed, tell your partner that you’re not sure and let them take the lead in the bedroom.
Sex is a very intimate and vulnerable experience and you may have a fear that your partner will not be able to fulfill your sexual needs.
If your partner can’t satisfy you, they may be cheating on you, which can be devastating. We all know what happens when we get cheated on.
Make up sex is great for so many reasons but let’s take a look at a few to show you why we think it is so important for a healthy relationship.
It refreshes the sex life
Having sex without any foreplay makes the sexual activity tedious, which makes it fun. It makes lovemaking feel fresh and novel. It is also a great way to rekindle the sexual passion that is normally lost over time.
It makes it easy to think rationally
Sex makes the people crazy. But if sex is made to feel more relaxed and pleasurable, then there is nothing wrong with the way it is being experienced. ‘Make-up sex’ helps to make lovemaking enjoyable. If you feel that you need to shut your brain out of the entire affair, ‘make-up sex’ is the best way to go.
It is equally intimate
Sex is an important part of your relationship, so be sure that it is with someone you want to have a close emotional connection with. Before you get too carried away in the act, be sure you know who you want to have sex with.
If you want a sexual mind-blowing experience that leaves you unsatisfied the following morning, don’t make it with the man who sat next to you in the English class.
It is fun and exciting
Sex should be fun. ‘Make-up sex’ is the best kind of sex you can have. It gives you two chances to try out different things and help you learn from your mistakes. Remember, you are both trying it on for the first time.
Sex is good for health
Although not completely proven, there is a lot of research that suggests that sex aids in relieving stress and helps to improve one’s mood. It is a part of a healthy life. So go ahead and do it more often.