This article will discuss 9 sex positions for those with low confidence. While the majority of us are curious about sex positions, a surprising number of us are totally lost.
And this might be due to reasons ranging from physical difficulty to mental self-confidence.
In fact, by using sex positions that require you to be on top and not in the driver’s seat, we help ourselves to feel more confident.
You’ll have to take initiative and perform in order for the position to work and the sex to feel good. As far as ideas go, we have a few ideas for you.
A word about confidence in bed
Some say that confidence is sexy and if you have low confidence in bed, it can be awkward and uncomfortable.
But, don’t stress yourself.
Sex is fun no matter what position you’re in and by no means am I telling you to feel sexy in every position. I find the sexual confidence is the beauty of being sexual.
Sexually, it is freeing to be your most wild and uninhibited self with your partner.
Enjoy every minute of it and don’t overthink everything that happens.
Here are 9 sex positions to rock your sex life even if you don’t have too much confidence (yet).
1. Doggy Style
You can do it in missionary, reverse cowgirl, doggy style and you name it.
This is a fabulous position for all of the above reasons and it is the perfect position for when you have low confidence.
Since you are in a vulnerable position, you will have to trust your partner that he won’t hurt you, but this also means that you have to let go of the allure of intimacy and just focus on the sex.
2. The Spoon
The spoon is a very unique position for anyone with low confidence.
Here, you lie on your side while your partner slides in on top of you, in a spooning-type manner.
This is the perfect position for morning sex since both of you have just probably slept together in this posture. When he wakes up with that morning erection this is the perfect position to start in.
3. Standing Up Sex
When you are aroused, one thing that happens is that you become very alert.
This will help to increase your levels of sexual awareness. There is nothing like being bent over and fucked against the wall.
This position allows you to look at your partner while being fucked from behind. It’s a lot of fun.
3. Twisted Sex
If you like the classic missionary position, try going for an entirely new twist on it.
Here, you will see your partner being on top while you ride his cock.
This position works best when you and your partner are both very sexually adventurous.
If you’re up for a challenge, try this popular and sexy position. While having sex in this position, a few benefits arise:
- It makes it really easy to reach around and play with the clitoris
- It allows for a lot of grinding and is super arousing
- It’s good for g-spot stimulation.
- It’s super easy to get your legs open or spread
- It lets you watch your partner’s face
6. Half Hips
The Half Heel is a new sex position that is surprisingly great for low confidence.
It allows for a lot of fun g-spot stimulation and it feels like you have more control than doggy style.
This is another great position for those with low confidence.
But what I love about this position is that you can really feel the clitoris being stimulated and it also adds a very powerful dose of g-spot stimulation.
8. Pleasure bible
This is a classic, but if you’ve never tried it, you will be surprised at how well it works for all kinds of guys.
Women seem to find it incredibly easy to have sex when the guy’s penis is in between them and their clitoris is stimulated.
9. Chair sex
Another incredibly popular position that will work for all men, but specifically those with low confidence. While in this position, there are two advantages.
The first one is that you’re more vertical and can really put your hips into it. Your legs should stay by your sides.
The other one is that because of the angle of the penis, the man’s penis enters the vagina straight on. It doesn’t have to go in diagonally or even on a slight angle. With this in mind, you can really feel and control the head of the penis entering the vagina.