Your anniversary is coming up, and it’s time to spend it as you please. Why not celebrate your marriage in a most creative way and take on some kinky challenges as a couple? 

The options are endless, but there are some basic ideas to get you started.

For the most part, these expectations are to be wrapped up in a nice, sweet card and a cardboard box with a note and some chocolate.

However, if one is super-fond of their partner and the night in which you met, it’s not a bad idea to be imaginative and kinky about your anniversary night. 

Whether you and your partner have been together for 1 year or 20 years, there are some really amazing ways to celebrate your love.

Here are 12 kinky ideas for celebrating your anniversary.

Lay the cuffs on

What’s more fun than wearing wrist cuffs, caning them on them, or setting them up with floggers? 

Here are a few great ideas for spanking, tickling, whipping, and more on the anniversary night, combined with a no-panty rule for both of you.

Crank up the sexy talk

Nothing makes a spanking more exciting than playful banter, and it’s really fun when you get to dress up and talk dirty to your partner. 

If you’re really ambitious, book a sexologist and have him/her come round to your place for a ‘designer spanking’ evening.

Shirtless games

It doesn’t matter whether you’re doing it with the lights on or not – exposing your lover’s body in a sexy way for your anniversary is a win. 

You could also experiment with having a strip-tease contest, which will get your partner worked up to sexual proportions.

Watch porn together

While most people view porn as being very personal and intimate, for those couples who are confident of their relationship, a viewing of porn can be a nice way to celebrate an anniversary together.

According to some, viewing it together can actually help strengthen their bond.

It is important to keep an open mind on this subject and to try new things as well as implement the tried-and-true ones.

Give each other massages

Massages are a great way to relieve tension, so getting your partner to massage you can be an excellent way to show the other half how much you appreciate them.

This will also help to foster a deeper connection with your partner as well as break up the monotony of daily life and stress.

For people with more experience than you, giving massages to each other can be an amazing form of foreplay that you can do when you’re alone.

You can take turns giving each other massages. Both partners should be properly prepared and willing to try it out.

Have a threesome

Like massages, a threesome can be a good way to spice up an anniversary.

Although it can be intimidating to open up to the other person about what you want, at the end of the day it is likely to be more satisfying for everyone involved if you both just get involved with the idea.

If you have been with your partner for a while and are in a secure relationship, this might not be an issue.

If you are looking to spice up your relationship with an extra sexy person, make sure you discuss it before you actually have it.

Discussing your desires with each other is a great way to build trust, even if you don’t go through with it in the end!

Roleplaying

Role-playing is an erotic game where two or more partners get to choose a character and use that for the night.

Most of these activities are less exciting to watch than some of the harder ones, but you should be safe to take your time and experiment with things to make it fun for you both.

Plan a date with your partner

Make a formal date out of it by decorating your place with some candles, chocolate, and roses. Perhaps you can even share a box of the romance novel you’re currently reading with your partner. 

Do your partner a favor and get the most bougie bottle of wine you can find and share a bottle of wine with your partner.

Plan your anniversary plans around your loved one’s likes and interests, and don’t forget to have sexy fun afterward!

Write risque erotica together

This is one of my personal favorites and will give you some great warm, and loving couple time. 

It may seem silly at first but you can have a lot of fun with it and really do whatever you want with it. 

Have sex in an unorthodox place

Have sex on a dock or a staircase in a public place, it’s risky and fun. 

Don’t think too much about where you have sex, but make sure it’s not one of the normal places you have sex.

Toys or adult toys

A present of a toy or a set of adult sex toys can be one of the most memorable gifts your partner will receive. 

It’s exciting to know that the person you love and cherish is actually a little kinky.

An even better idea is that you can take your lover to the adult store and you can choose which toy they would like (as opposed to you choosing for them).